
What To Do If Your Partner Is Upset With You And Refuses To Talk To You???
“Every relationship goes through those rough times. Misunderstandings, unmet expectations, hurt, anger and doubts. But, love is even when you are hurt, you can’t see them hurting. You can still feel their pain and want to heal it with your LOVE. You just don’t wanna give up.”
IS IT EVEN WORTH IT???
Suddenly everything became meaningless and we start doubting our bond and love itself. These low moments convince us that’s it’s not worth it. A feeling of failure comes over us and it affects us really bad. We either go into isolation or we react with anger. Both consume our energy and hope.
YOU CANT SEE THEM HURTING…
When you see your partner in pain you realise that all this negativity could have been avoided. You feel like correcting the hurt and make everything fine. It’s possible that you still think that you didn’t do anything wrong and you were hurt too but now the priority has changed. It’s not about who was right and who was wrong, it’s about the bond, the relationship and the love.
THEY’RE STILL NOT READY TO TALK!!!
At first, you thought of providing them with space and wait till they get ready to talk. But, sometimes that space starts turning into a void and what if your partner starts getting emotionally closed? What if their walls get stronger and stronger with the time? The thing is they are still hurt and thinking about all wrongs you said and did. It’s tough for them too to come out of that hurt zone all alone. Everything is echoing in their head and moving in front of the eyes. They want to talk too but that hurt and pains don’t let them. Be there, hang on and hold onto them. Let them know you want them.
WHAT TO DO!!!
They need you to tell them still LOVE is there. After all that there is still hope and nothing has changed. They are being tough and hard so that they might not get hurt again. So, help them to break their walls. Remind them of those beautiful memories. Don’t let them give up because it will break them too.
I HAVE AN IDEA !!!
I had a similar situation with Mr Husband and I think I got totally closed and didn’t want to hear a thing. I was showing that I was angry but inside I was broken. I was pushing him away though wanted to hug him. As I was not ready to listen to a thing, so what he did was left a beautiful letter and wrote his heart out with my morning coffee. I thought not to drink the coffee made by him but to make one for myself but that letter caught my attention. And, now I am in LOVE again…
52 Comments
Sameera
You both are Adorable.😘 God bless you. And what you said is absolutely right. We can’t undo what we said but we can surely make them feel special.❤️
msarora
So sweet 😍😍
Vikas Jakhar
Any1 can connect it with real life. Its so true that u can even live it while reading.
Keep up d spirit n keep writing.
All d best
😊
Bhavna Saurabh Sharma
Thank you yaar
So nice to read and see your comment
Din bana diya
Manessah B.
This is so beautiful and such wonderful advice on communicating with those we love! Your post reminds me why I never like going to bed angry with someone. I’m too afraid that I won’t get tomorrow to say I love them or hug them, again.
Bhavna Saurabh Sharma
How beautifully you said it my dear
So true
Manessah B.
Thank you! 🙂
Shantanu Baruah
You both look awesome. And the read is perfect. Did ur husband read this
Bhavna Saurabh Sharma
Oh! Yes he did 😍
Shantanu Baruah
Good for him and for you too 😊
Bhavna Saurabh Sharma
I woke up to his letter and flowers today and just penned down my feelings
Shantanu Baruah
That is beautiful. Keep the fire burning 🌸😊
calmkate
don’t throw love away so easy … communication and compatibility are essential .. well written!
Bhavna Saurabh Sharma
very well said. My sincere apologies for replying so late but I don’t know why but your comment landed upin my spam folder.
calmkate
too often that happens .. wordpress say I write too many so they spam it 🙁
Bhavna Saurabh Sharma
oh no! that’s reaaly bad. Because commenting is so goood and encouraging.
It’s ok dear I will search for your beautiful comments even in spam <3
calmkate
thanks so much … I prefer to leave a message as likes are too lazy and don’t show you’ve read 🙂
Bhavna Saurabh Sharma
I completely agree.
A Journey Called Life
Aww sweet! 🙂
Bhavna Saurabh Sharma
Thank you so much <3
A Journey Called Life
You’re very welcome 😊🌸
Winnie
Great advice! Thank you for the reminder. Yes, you two are really adorable.
Bhavna Saurabh Sharma
thank you so much, beautiful for the compliment.
Winnie
You’re welcome!
WhyToStop
You guys are so adorable… I loved this post .. when I am angry, I just avoid to come across my husband, either will be busy with my daughter or go outside… I think love gets fresh after a fight😉😊
Bhavna Saurabh Sharma
i believe it too. <3
Warren Richards
Marriage is not easy, but if a man truly loves a woman; HE WILL GO OUT OF HIS WAY TO SHOWS IT! Beautifully said! 😊
Sparkling Sona
So nicely written and such great advice, which will surely go a long way. Thank you so much for this♥️
Bhavna Saurabh Sharma
thank you Sona…
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Only kabir
its very beautiful and helpful advice…😊👍
Bhavna Saurabh Sharma
thank you so much Kabir 🙂
Only kabir
my plessure…😊
rita
I belive sometimes we need time to think and understand .Nice write up !
Bhavna Saurabh Sharma
yes. definitely . same with me. I just want that space should not become a lonely place and a void in the bond.
parikhitdutta
I remember a quote which went something like half the troubles in this world will be solved if we speak to each other than about each other. I guess over time we have stopped speaking and that strengthens the rift further.
Bhavna Saurabh Sharma
I totally agree
DEBALINA BERA
This is so comprehensive! I quite understand the struggle these days,and this piece is so relevant!
Bhavna Saurabh Sharma
Huggggs. Thanks 😍💕
Rotimi Elijah
These are all good. Well written and insightful.
Bhavna Saurabh Sharma
Thank you so much my dear friend. I am sorry for the late reply as your comment was stuck in my spam folder. Sincere apologies.
Rotimi Elijah
You have a big heart, thanks to you too. Really appreciate it. I’m sorry my response came late too. Enjoy the rest of the week
Liavi, TheVillageCinderella
Honest tips here… and your Mr. Husband sounds Mr. Angel 💕
Bhavna Saurabh Sharma
Hey thanks for the beautiful comments. Where had you been and how you doing?
Liavi, TheVillageCinderella
Yeah it’s been weeks.. I was caught up with family and kids summer holiday 😁 I’m doing good and trying to keep up with loads to read ha ha. Thank you!
Bhavna Saurabh Sharma
Oh I understand. Hope you having fun and lots of good time
Liavi, TheVillageCinderella
Yes fun and good times this month 💕
Rekha Sahay
Marriages are becoming empty shell these days. You advise and tip are really valuable. Stay blessed.
Bhavna Saurabh Sharma
This means a lot Rekha di. thank you
Rekha Sahay
Welcome dear.
ChirasreeWrites
such a beautiful write-up and an useful advice😊
innervoice28
This is really wonderful ✨👌