
It’s The Little Things You Do In Love That Matter The Most In The Relationship…
Love is easy what’s actually tough is Loving. Believe me you, she is not that hard to love. All that matters is how much efforts you put in to make her feel loved and appreciated. Efforts you put doesn’t need grand strategies, I believe just like other important things in your life you need to take some time out for the woman in your life. Doing little things out of love, being aware of her need and feelings, does all the trick.
1. Looking for Date Night Ideas?
You don’t need to take her out on lavish grand date nights but try having those evening walks or after-dinner walks regularly with her where you ask her about her day and tell about yours. Hand in hand and heart to heart is the recipe for the magic.
2. Everyday is Special, Isn’t it!
You don’t need to buy those expensive gifts and jewellery all the time but bring her a rose on one of those regular days. Make her feel special on just ordinary days too.
3. Hello love! How You Doing ???
You both might be busy and occupied to keep calling each other like those good old college days. That’s ok. Just call her once for 2 minutes and tell her “I can’t wait to see you again, I really miss you.”
4. When LOVE met Friendship …
You need not be the Best Husband or Best Boyfriend under the sun. I know that’s one herculean task! Just try to be her best friend and everything will follow.
5. Ever wished upon a Shooting star !!
Moon looks best in the Sky as it is. You don’t have to bring it down for her. If you missed planning for a special night, Try this. Spend a night under the starry violet sky and cuddle in each other’s arms, I think that’s all she wants.
6. Letters to your Juliet.
It’s ok If PDA’s are not your thing and you can’t write those romantic statuses on social media but you can still write letters to her. Love letter charm is still a thing.
7. Those long drives, Vroom Vroom !!
Not everytime we have time or money for those exotic vacations, it happens. Plan a romantic long drive with her just like in the journey of life you both feel fortunate to sit beside each other. As they say, live a life you don’t need a vacation from.
8. Survive the storm while dancing in the rain 🙂
No doubt, you are her shield against the craziest storms and you have to be at your best to fulfil all responsibilities and duties. I encourage you to support her like this forever but do you still find her sad at times? Drop your guards, be easy on yourself and enjoy those little moments with her. Get out of your living room, pull her out too and dance in the rain.
9. Weekend getaways are important but you want to stay home :O
Weird it sounds but ya! sometimes we are left with no energy for weekend getaways, all we want to do is stay back home and relax. And also there are some pending household tasks that can only be done on weekends and hence no time for getaways. You can still make your weekends special do stuff together, dancing and singing together, you can do relaxed movie marathons. Stay together and enjoy in each other’s company.
10. Luxurious Candle Light dinners !!!
Try cooking for her. I agree not all men are good with this but least you can do is turn off your screens, get up from that couch and help her with cooking or someday give her a day off from cooking. Order the food. Dim the light, light up the candles and put the music on. You don’t need those fancy restaurants for romantic dinners. Trust me …
(Note: You could be a woman, wanting to romance your partner. The same great ideas will work!)
“If she’s amazing, she won’t be easy. If she’s easy, she won’t be amazing. If she’s worth it, you won’t give up. If you give up, you’re not worthy. … Truth is, everybody is going to hurt you; you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for.”
― Guitar Chord Songbook – Bob Marley
40 Comments
Rêveuse
Beautiful picture ma’am 💛 and great post … and last quote is superb 😊
Bhavna Saurabh Sharma
Thank you so much dear.
This quote is my most favourite. 😍
Baffledmum
This is lovely! I don’t believe in lavish gifts & nights out, I much rather prefer a home cooked meal (cooked together) an evening walk & a good chat & laugh! Perfect! ❤
pramegha
I so much agree with all the things you listed.
🌸🌸
sushmita sikha
Loved it 😍😍
Bhavna Saurabh Sharma
Thank you so much dear
asansson
A good classification for lovers even though I do not believe in Love.
MummyandWife
I love it!
Kranti
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Bhavna Saurabh Sharma
Oh my God 😍
Kranti I am falling short of words to tell you how wonderful and thankful I am feeling.
This is the first thing I saw in the morning. You made my day dear. I am a new blogger and this was so heart warming and encouraging. Thank you so much Kranti, thanks a lot 🙏
Kranti
You are so welcome dear! Congrats, Keep writing and have a wonderful day! 😊👍
Bhavna Saurabh Sharma
Tell me what I have to do next.
Kranti
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Eddie Two Hawks
great post, excellent quote, always a timely topic
Bhavna Saurabh Sharma
Thank you so much 💕
harotianessentials
Beautiful! ❤️
Bhavna Saurabh Sharma
thank you so much dear.
rita
Nice post !But i love surprises gifts and outings also !
Bhavna Saurabh Sharma
Thanks Rita
So well said. Thanks for your reply.
I also enjoy them a lot. I wrote these points thinking of the times when we don’t have enough time than we can plan little things too rather than not doing anything. 😘
Winnie
This is great advice! 😊❤️
Bhavna Saurabh Sharma
Thank you 😊.
Winnie
You’re welcome! 😊
Bhavna Saurabh Sharma
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Winnie
Ok! 😊
trupti vashishtha
I wish… If I’ll ever get chance to feel or do all this…!! This is sooo sweet and lovely…!! 😍
Rekha Sahay
Great post and important tips .
Song at the end of write up is too good dear .
Bhavna Saurabh Sharma
Thank you dear 🤗
The Gift Adviser
Beautiful article 🙂
Island Traveler
True. Wonderful post
cmapillay
Lovely quote. You have quite a lovely blog, who wouldn’t follow!!
EmotionalNotions
You are correct in my eyes with your simple ways of pleasing your woman. If she is not happy with those heartfelt attempts, you’re in trouble. Materialistic people are often emotionally lacking internally…
Bhavna Saurabh Sharma
“Materialistic people are often emotionally lacking internally”
What a deep and truthful thing you just said.
I can’t agree more.
neerajme
True,Small things matter big when it comes to nurture a relationship.
Bhavna Saurabh Sharma
Thanks Neeraj, Yes I truly believe its not about big gifts but the bigger heart.
code2cook
good one.
Bhavna Saurabh Sharma
Thanks dear
lifeathome
Hi bhavna
Such a beautiful post and very nicely articulated. Unfortunately i do not have ant such moment to cherish as my hubby doesnt like to show love. Bad for me 😂
Bhavna Saurabh Sharma
May be there are some signs that you are missing…
😘 May be he shows love in his own way
Osinachi Okoye
This is a sweet post to remind couples that you don’t need to spend thousands to be happy together.
ChirasreeWrites
Well written!! useful for all the newbie lovers😃